MS and I are in a disagreement right now. I think he thinks are fine but I’m still pissed. He doesn’t want me to take this job, and is being really unsupportive and condescending about it. He said I’m going to be tired and whiny and he’s going to be left with a “shell of my Sonja.” He also accused me of not really thinking about this. He just doesn’t get it though. It’s not like I want to work two jobs, but I’m not making enough at my regular job and I’m constantly worried about money. I want to go back to school, but I can’t do that without getting some money saved up first. Plus, if this goes well, maybe I can quit my full time job and concentrate on school while bartending. This isn’t supposed to be a permanent life change. It’s a temporary solution. If I work three six hour shifts a week, I’ll earn more than 10k a year. Chances are, it will probably be more than that. I’m not in a position to turn that down just because I’ll be tired. I don’t have that luxury and he doesn’t seem to understand that I don’t have a ton of good options right now. I’m just glad I’m leaving today for the weekend and he can take some time to think about his position.